HOW ANY WOMAN CAN KEEP HER MAN WITHOUT ALL THOSE KAYAMATA AND JUJU NONSENSE

HOW ANY WOMAN CAN KEEP HER MAN WITHOUT ALL THOSE KAYAMATA AND JUJU NONSENSE

 

Let’s talk about how any woman can keep her man without all those kayamata and juju nonsense…

Once in a while, I get messages from women who read my blog posts and who want me to advise them on what to do to keep their man without kayamata and juju.

Last week alone, I got 12 of such messages.

8 of them were from married women who are looking for ways to keep their men from side chicks while the rest were from single ladies who are almost giving up on love because of heartbreaks.

If you have read any of my blog posts too, you should know by now that I know many delicious relationship tips that can save your courtship or marriage.

 

The following article is the reply to some of those messages:

 

1.      Don’t be men-pleaser: In trying to show love to your man, don’t lose yourself. Try as much as possible to be yourself. A man that loves you will love your real person. Remember to maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship and be true to who you really are, not who you think he wants you to be. Does is it stop character improvement? Absolutely no. Improve on any area you’re lacking.

2.    Appreciate him: This is very important. Don’t allow closeness to make you lose respect for your man. Learn to praise him in areas like his effort in trying to meet the needs of the family (men love this seriously), his handiwork (be interested in his work; don’t nag); appreciate him for that positive things he does. Remember, being in a relationship with someone is voluntary. A person can leave at any time. So, appreciate your man. Don’t learn in a hard way.

3.    Be interested in his work and hobbies: If you hate your man’s work, you have already signed up for unhappiness in your relationship. Because men draw self-worth from work. You show you’re interested by listening to his work problems and suggest a little fix to any area he’s finding difficult to solve. Your man will see you as an invaluable asset. For you to do this, you must build your intellectual capacity by books and attending seminars…Don’t be only a movie freak. In any of the sport he’s passionate with, get involved. Go and watch him play and cheer him up. These little things count.

4.    Learn to hug him: Especially when he comes from work. That your two breasts are not only for breast-feeding but also to dissipate the work pressure in the heart of your partner. So hug him like a baby. Place his head on your front twins.

5.     Be aware of your emotions: Know how to manage your emotions. Because women are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. Avoid cold war in your relationship. Don’t forget, your man want to know he lights you up – not that he is constantly disappointing you.

6.    Prioritize your relationship: Don’t place job, children, a sick relative, charity or anything above your man. After God, your man should come next. Make him know this. Every man want to feel valued and important. It’s relationship you care for that will last for a lifetime.

7.     Learn his love language: This is very important. According to Dr. Gary Chapman in his book titled “The Five Love Languages”, he said there are five love languages like Quality time, Act of service, Word of affirmation, Praise & Gift. Learn your man’s love language and speak it to him regularly. If it’s praise, praise him often. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.

8.    Recognize his relationship patterns: Try to know the history of his previous relationships.  If he was a cheater you can’t change him; he will surely cheat no matter the love he has for you. Some men have cheating in their genes they can’t but have sexual relations with as many women as they can. If it’s your boyfriend, leave him. Because he’s going to cause you heartbreak. If he’s your husband, I can only pray for mercy to endure because you are in already.

9.     Always remind him you exist: Especially when he’s at work or out with the guys. You can text him a short and quick message like “I love you,” “I miss you” or “I have a special surprise for you when you get home!”  This is a better way than nagging or questioning him on the phone. Force guilty thoughts out of his mind with your love.

10.   Let him know the consequences of cheating on you: Let him know in a lighthearted way (but with a deadly serious undertone) that you will not tolerate a cheater. This is best done at the start of your relationship when he’s still over you. The consequence might be leaving him. If you are worth having, he won’t dear to cheat.

11. Give him the best sex of his life: This advice is for married couples. Sex is not meant to be boring; it should be an interesting and unforgetting moment, making your spouse to long for more.  Every woman needs to be creative in this area. Don’t be too holy towards your man when it comes to sex. Be weird in bed with him. You can be spirit-talking and word-quoting but when it comes to bedwork you must be like “Delilah”. It’s your man…your husband for God sake. Your body now belongs to him. Initiate different styles and not the usual “Deeper life approach”. Because a man who is well fed at home hardly goes after tooth-pick legged ladies outside. Be wise!!

 

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 Gbenga Dada

(YourLoveCoach)

HOW TO REPROGRAM YOUR MIND FOR ABUNDANCE

HOW TO REPROGRAM YOUR MIND FOR ABUNDANCE

 

What would you give to be rid of every debt and obligation? What would it be worth to you to shed every financial limitation that hedges you around, and face the world as a free butterfly that has just shed its cocoon? Would you risk N417 a month for 12 months for it?

It can be done…. make no mistake about that. As a matter, it is the way all of Nature works. Only man clings to his financial mess, and so reproduces them in every greater and greater number. Only man hugs his chain of “broke” and so binds them together around him.

Yet it has been preventive and again that it is just as natural for man to shed wrong conditions and start afresh, as for a lobster to shed a broken claw, or a snake its skin. And it can be done without injustice – in fact, the Bible adjures us in many places to do that very thing! How can it be done? How does the snake shed its old skin? By first forming a new skin beneath, does it not, then letting go of the old? How does the lobster get a new claw, a child grow a new tooth? By starting the new conditions under the shell of the old, then when they are far enough along, letting go of the old?

The outer shell is always dead. It is only underneath it, where the new conditions are forming that there is life. Your present circumstances or conditions do not matter. There is no life in them. It is what is forming  beneath them that counts!

What conditions are taking shape under the shell of YOUR present circumstances? Are you hugging the same old debts and lacks and unhappiness to you, and reproducing them over and over again? Or are you growing a set of brand new conditions, of riches and happiness and success, ready to split the old shell and let go of it at a moment’s notice?

You can shed the old, you can grow new and perfect conditions, and you can do it right now. You don’t have to wait until someone does and leaves you a million. You don’t need to depend upon outside help of any kind. The power is in you, just as it is in every other form of life. It needs using……that’s all.

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The UGLY TRUTH About Dating, Courtship & Marriage

 The UGLY TRUTH About Dating, Courtship & Marriage

I learnt this UGLY TRUTH while reading one of the posts of Leke Alder….the No.1 brand consultant in Nigeria….

And the brainbox behind jacknjillive.com……a relationship blog (You can google him or visit https://jacknjillive.com). You will be awed by the kind of wisdom that saturates every piece of his writing.

This article is an excerpt from one of his posts….

“My dear Jack, there is such a thing as sad truth and you’ve stepped into one. We step into sad truth when we ignore wisdom. Then when calamity comes, wisdom sticks out her tongue. I did warn you not to go into marriage without a job, a source of livelihood or income.  Now you see why. You allowed yourself to be railroaded into an unrealistic Snow White timetable based on a self-serving editorialized Bible text. Yes, God said you shouldn’t worry about a thing, but he wasn’t encouraging foolishness or joblessness. When you talk wisdom to a young man and he counters with religious techno-babble, you let him be. Life will teach him. It’s amazing how people fail to see practical truths in Holy writ. Yet the Bible is full of practical teachings. The Bible is totally against the idea of a man not working. How can it support the idea of going into marriage with no? didn’t Apostle Paul say he that does not work should not eat, so what “favour” chimera are you talking about? And Apostle Paul went further to state that the man who wouldn’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel!

You and your then girlfriend now wife convinced yourselves it’s an excuse of faith to go into marriage without livelihood. I did ask you how exactly you intend to take care of your family without a job or income………….”

 You can see from this post that….

money is an important factor in a relationship……

whether dating, courtship or marriage.

I will leave you to your opinion….but to me, I don’t completely blame the poor guy that was rebuked here. He might have married out of old age or frustration of not getting a good job. Disappointments here and there from employers…

Maybe he’s tired of doing 15k per month job….

You know what……

There’s great poverty in this country…..

And this is gravely affecting dating or courtship…even marriages.

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Can we really blame the poor girl that got married to this guy?

Age might not be on her side also…

And maybe the relationship has started since the day of Lord Lugard..

Who knows.

They married out of faith which is termed as foolishness

But  let’s be realistic here…

How will they be coping after wedding?

A big question…???

Because manna will not fall from heaven

That only happened in the days of Moses in the wilderness

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 Gbenga Dada

YourLoveCoach

CAN ONE REALLY EARN 750K A MONTH IN NIGERIA WITHOUT WORKING IN AN OIL COMPANY?

CAN ONE REALLY EARN 750K A MONTH IN NIGERIA WITHOUT WORKING IN AN OIL COMPANY?

I know you are surprised that I am using this relationship blog to discuss money matter

Is it good if I see a great opportunity and don’t share it?

Back to what I want to write….

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YourLoveCoach.